Toilet Training: Top Tips

1. Start with Familiarisation (Birth–18 months)

• Talk positively about the toilet — avoid words like “stinky” or “yuck.”
• Let your child watch you go to the toilet.
• Read toilet-themed books together.
• Use the words wee and poo to normalise the experience.

2. Ideal Training Window

• Most kids respond best to training between 18 months and 2½ years.
• Boys are often around 6 months later developmentally — consider training girls first if you have both.

3. Look for Readiness Signs

Behavioural Readiness:

• Hiding to do a poo
• Showing discomfort with dirty nappies
• Asking questions about the toilet

Physical Readiness:

• Staying dry for 1–2 hours
• Able to sit still for a few minutes
• Passing soft, formed poo
• Can pull pants down

4. Use the Right Equipment

• Invest in a stool: Feet should be flat with knees slightly above hips to help relax pelvic muscles.

5. Set a Routine

• Take your child to the toilet every 1½ to 2 hours — not too frequently.
• Get to know their natural timing.

6. Keep It Low-Pressure

• Expect accidents — they’re normal!
• Avoid turning toilet training into a big deal.
• Keep progress private — avoid discussing it with friends or extended family to reduce pressure on your child.

For more support and info sign up to one of our Toilet Training Webinars or visit: toilettrainingeducators.com.au

This article was first published in NIMBA member newsletter Issue 316 | October 2024